Special Gifts to Give
The Gift of Your Belongings
Still shopping for the holidays? Instead of going to the mall, go into your home and find nice items that you no longer love or use. “Nice” means in good condition and/or holds aesthetic, emotional or financial value. Wrap it up for the person you think would really appreciate it. In one effort, you get clutter out of your home, save money, and give a thoughtful gift. You can do this year round, too. Everyone benefits.
The Gift of Your Experience
Rather than buy another object, buy a gift that you and your loved ones can share: a special meal, event, or place to enjoy together. Write a card saying your gift is your attention and a good time. What could be more loving than that? The experience will keep in your memory, and can be shared for years to come.
The Gift of Your Presence
Give people the gift of your presence by not answering the phone just because it rings. No one needs to hear that you are “in a meeting, on the other line or driving, and can’t talk now.” Or worse, you engage in the phone call, fully expecting the person you were with to wait. Personally or professionally, let’s tell the truth, it interrupts the flow of communication and connection, and is just plain disrespectful. I know it has become common practice, but it is a practice that unnecessarily adds stress to our days. When critical thinking, emotions or money is involved, taking that call can cost you a lot. Instead of Pavlov, Pause and be Present℠. Remember voice mail? Use it, you pay for it. Of course there are exceptions, but you’ll feel less frantic, more in control by choosing a good time (for you) to return calls. Everyone will be more at peace. That’s a gift we can all use – all year long.
Laura Moore, M.Ed.
ClutterClarity at Home
Replacing Clutter with Comfort and Control
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