Re-Thinking Re-gifting

Let’s settle this once and for all. Re-gifting is totally OK. In fact, be proud of setting an example of non-waste and smart money management. No need for embarrassment.

When asked where a certain item is, explain that you appreciate the thought and effort, and leave it at that. Repeat yourself if need be with a tone of confidence, not defensiveness. Do not be held hostage to another by holding onto something you do not want or love, especially if you do not like the person who gave you the gift.  

Importantly, expand the concept of re-gifting to include anything nice in your home that you no longer love or use, not just the gifts that were given to you. “Nice,” means it is in good shape and/or has sentimental or monetary value.

You can regift anything in your home, not just gifts. Walk through your home and find things that you:

• meant to give away
• still have the price tag on
• never used, rarely use, or no longer use
• have too many of, anyway,
• really don’t love anymore, ut know someone who would
• don’t have the space to store

Here's a real life example. My client turned her clutter into these great Christmas gifts:

1. a one-year old computer to a sister,
2. inherited tea-cups to an aunt for her collection
3. unused furniture went to a nephew for his first apartment.

Everyone was happy, and it cost nothing.  Happy holidays!